It wasn't even so much that anything in particular was triggering the tears, it's just that sometimes an orgasm leaves you totally naked mentally and emotionally as well as physically, and whatever fleeting impulse of an emotion happens to flit up into your brain just comes straight out. Possibly not related, but he's the only person who's ever made me cry good way! Sometimes that's just the switch that gets flipped.
You two are probably having great, emotionally deep sex. It wasn't even so much that anything in particular was triggering the tears, it's just that sometimes an orgasm leaves you totally naked mentally and emotionally as well as physically, and whatever fleeting impulse of an emotion happens to flit up into your brain just comes straight out. I have no idea what that means, though. I usually feel sadness and relief, and experience it as a very good thing. It happens for me after sex like that - the urge to sob and bawl and let it all out wells up just after orgasm. It seems to freak dudes out, though, so I'm guessing that it's not all that common. It's happened to me once or twice and I know other women who have experienced this phenomenon reguarly. Apparently this is happening to people, and I need to figure out how to make it happen to moi. When you have sex so good it makes you cry, all of your physical and mental pleasure points are hit to the point where your body is just like, OH SHIT. It's not an every time I come thing, but it's almost an every time I come with my husband thing. The other day I was watching a pornographic — though artful — performance work online and throughout the whole video the sex was so intense that the guy on bottom was actually crying. Happily I already have a person in mind — and he knows who he is! Just hold her, cradle her and get involved. It's the enormity of the release that does it. It's great when it happens, since it's usually the sign of deeply emotional sex--but to happen every single time would be really exhausting, physically, mentally and emotionally. I'd imagine it's the same for your girlfriend. I only cry upon orgasm when: Whatever makes her happy! It often seems a form of "relief" to a stressful period in my non-sex life as well. P posted by Madamina at 7: It's never happened to me, but I've heard from male friends of mine that this happens to their female partners not infrequently. The best response is just to appreciate it as a deep thing and be open to it, maybe not think too much about who caused it or how it happened. Happened to a former GF sometimes when we "made love" vs you know, more pedestrian sex. Those that do, do it not uncommonly, I'd say, to varying degrees. The sadness might be "god, what a hard week it's been," or "wow, I can't believe how scared I was I'd lose you during that one fight we had," and sometimes it's much less specific. The orgasm just pushes the emotions over the edge where crying can't be helped. We get so wrapped up in the physicality of sex that we forget how mental the experience is supposed to be.
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